When someone is in conflict in a relationship

When someone is in conflict in a relationship, they will inevitably begin acting on the energy and the resultant reactivity infects all three areas of their lives.? They become preoccupied, distracted and lose the ability to focus and concentrate on the task at hand.? When people are in conflict, they create negative energy within themselves and then project the energy towards co-workers, customers, significant others or their children? If conflict occurs in any of the three areas of relationships, the person will be inflicted by the Presenteeism bug at both home and at work.? When this happens they will be unable to successfully complete the 4 C’s - communicate, connect, manage conflicts or compromise in all relationships.? All of this leads to dollars lost due to decreased productivity.

How about those lucky few who have happy and successful relationships?? The Corporate Resource Council found that workers in happy relationships exhibit reduced job turnover rates, have lower rates of absenteeism and presenteeism, and are generally considered more dependable, cooperative and motivated.? As S. Truett Cathy, CEO of Chick-fil-A once said, “You can’t expect people to do well in their business if they’ve got problems at home.”

So what new awareness’s have we learned about this new word “Presenteeism?” ?First, Presenteeism can have a major impact on the financial health of a business. ?Also, a major cause of Presenteeism is the quality of one’s personal relationships.? Professional and personal relationship successes are interconnected and people who enjoy personal relationship success are more positive, present, and productive at work.